Privacy or What ???

We ask ourselves throughout our lives....
time and time again...

Is being ALONE "LONELY"?

OR...

Is it GRAND ?

Does curling up and watching a great, old movie.>>>>> ALONE
LOSE SOMETHING without the very SPECIFIC feel of a MAN "spooning" you at the same time ?

Is COMPROMISE WISE ?
Is SHARING necessarily BETTER ???
more meaningful somehow ?

And what if the compromise is SO COMPROMISING ........
that you YOURSELF get lost in the shuffle of MEDIOCRITY ?
of GREY AREA ??

Is there room in ANYONE'S CAVE for an EQUAL ?
Or is every union really somewhat LOPSIDED,,,,,
 hence FILLING the inevitable, PREGNANT SCIZM of UNEVEN DISTRIBUTION
with words and hands and food and bathwater ???
and SEX ??

Wouldn't it be SIMPLER somehow to just HAVE the hands, food, and SEX
WITHOUT
committing to enormously HEIGHTENED LEVELS OF COMPROMISE ???

What say you ?